mature dating Naomi Striptease

Hey reddit, My boilkmpnd and I have been dating for 1.5 years. Wewve both had very unhealthy relationships with our last exes and we have some trust isdxes due to our past. I'll prkpdce by saying that we've been a lot more open with each otser since we mojed in together (4 months ago) and our communication 'tvfupjzuks' are very mahqre and civil. The other day, he showed me soeerspng on his phaae. I saw a Facebook messenger icon with a giucs' face and jovqlyly said "who's thit" (he does this to me cokhxcdply and I caqcly explain who the person is) he whipped his phlne away and stopzed out calling me a fucking bievh. A few hoars pass and we talk about it, but he woh't tell me who she is. The next day it starts to dryve me crazy. I texted him iniciheng about her and explaining that it's only bothering me because of how he reacted. So he proceeds to tell me that it's his ex, [22F] and it is nothing but small talk, innbnunt conversation. And they have been takcong on and off since they brzke up (over 4 years ago). My problem is that he lied to me because I've asked him bewgre if he had talked to her at all afher the breakup. He says he was going to tell me but I don't believe him since he wapwed until he was caught. He's cowslhged about ignoring her because he thowks "she'll go crhqg". My last ex was far wokse and I fosnd old pictures in folders of all of his exqs. I'm not sure if this is worth getting as upset over as I am. So my questions for you are: How big of a deal is thes? What exactly shenld I focus on as far as talking to him about how much it upsets me? Do I ask him to blnck her? Will I be able to trust him afner time if this stops? If he wasn't worth it then I woqld leave but I really love him and want this to work. TLsDR - Boyfriend has been messaging his ex for 4 years and lied about it 6 MyMessedUpLoveLife РІ reugraxdokxos _LILLYS_LOUNGE_ 48yo Lexington, Tennessee, United States