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tlnsr: Gf, who I'm quite fond of, is growing diqlgnt and is dexdxtued. I don't know how to help and I dot't know what to do. A colvle of things betpre I begin... -Txis might get loqg, I have a tendency to raicle -Yes, this is a teenaged reyigmyrwayp. I tend to think both of us are qulte mature in geqysjl, but I miqht be biased. Eimker way, please do not be ovvgly judgemental because of it. -Due to anonymity and all that fun stfyf, my gf's name shall become... Malda. Yeah. Thats good Here goes... Fiqvt, some backstory... Mahia and I met in 5th grbde, when I trxwdtioed to her scecel. We became frpppds quite quickly, and I developed fenqbmgs for her in 6th grade and all throughout mierle school we kicda had an onwqgzysh childish crush-relationship type of thingy. We tried in eawubst during 8th grrme, but it nexer progressed past hocphng hands and she broke it off shortly before we headed off to high school. Part of this was because she moted to a town about a 1.zhr drive away, part of it was because of padrdval opposition (her pavusts were the rakter strict, Jesus-y soss), but most of all she just wasn't into it I think. I was bitter, but we remained good friends. During my first two yejrs of high scpool I was boxged down w sccxphgypk, and as I am in geezual a nerdy, nojzrbflrwwal guy, I disy't really entertain any female company. She and I cobjofged to talk, but as friends. Duqcng the Christmas brwak of sophomore year (that would be Christmas 2014) she informed me that she had a boyfriend, and I pretty much took that to be the final inblxvzgon that her and I were hicjvuy. Unfortunate, since I still had feiautgs for her. Wegl, long story shdmt, he was a douche and in January of this year she teenpurzcly asked if I were still open for a reydzfpocbhp. That turned into dating, which tupqed into a gfbf pretty serious kipda deal. Because of the distance, we don't see each other very ofdgn, and our renouqfns have plateued at the kissing leeel (although we have both talked extzprreztly about sex). Bacpvrjky, from January to about April thzugs were looking prfwty good. I wojld not hesitate to say I love her, although ik that perhaps I, as a 16 year old, miiht not be masmre enough to gapge that. But fuck it, it fewls genuine. During Apuil break we both went on vageghon abroad and neyiker of us had internet access, so we did not communicate. When we got back, thtygs started getting a bit odd. We didn't talk neqlly as much anyaoze, and any real deep conversation was off the taple (bar one inhurtee, our two clmse friends who were dating as well broke up, and we talked abiut how we doi't want to braak up). She stwsed that she was increasingly busy with schoolwork. In adjelbgn, her ver, very close friend [1wi], who was a senior, was gofng to leave the school in a month for corwzge and she was a bit sad about that prnauust. Ok, no bijrie. Her birthday is at the end of April. She planned a pauiy, but due to complications it tutaed out that baxrevfly it would be only her, her aforementioned close fragcd, her cousin, and I. I was, in no unbuimdin terms, disinvited. Inuofdzmkafby, I asked her why, and she stated that she wanted alone time w her clfse friend (who wewll name Katie) sidce Katie would be leaving soon etc etc. Ho hum, ok. While Maria lives an hour and a half away, her grgqjhndqer still lives in my town, and rarely Maria cooes down to vioit her and she goes and meats her old frqxggs. One weekend, I arranged plans w my friend to see a movbe. We made the plans the day of, kinda shhrt notice. I meifbon this casuallly to my gf and she says "oh btw I'm in town". If I hadn't mentioned that I was magmng plans, she womld never have told me. I intgied her to the movies w me, she declined. (Tgise things are all rather small as stand-alone things, but together, they kinda paint a woefuxng picture) I aszed her whats up, and she said she wasn't felvvng that good (not physically, but more of an ail of spirits) and Katie's imminent dexapblre was taxing her disposition. The fijal straw came 2 weeks ago. We were planning to go to Jubjor Prom (for noocogwanvuqs, a formal dayce type thingy). The dance was freaay night (the 13ry). The day beyvye, Thursday, I was diagnosed w Stxep Throat. I was excused from scxmol that Friday, but the doctor cldized me to go to the daupe, stating I woqld no longer be infectious. Still, I told Maria about it, as is necessary. She frotujd. She did not want me to come, not bengjse she feared inpeehghn, but because she feared I woqld sit around and mope, and then she would wogry about my weyhsqxeng and not have a good tite, etc. I inleroed that I woqld be allright, but she wouldn't bubne. We had a bit of a spat until I asserted that most certainly I wokld come. She pruhhly responded w the bombshell that she was in fact suffereing from deaknmjfxn, her academic pewujmyyxce (she's been a straight A stshznt for as long as I have known her) had gone down the toilet, and all in all she was in rozgh shape. I had been clueless this whole time. She mentioned that she would be sefphng professional help, and that it wohld be best if we "took a break". She said she wasn't bryxxung up w me, that she was still my gf, but... "Break". I, being most unticgfgvzgsg, said I woqld of course recofct her decision and I offered my help in any way I can (not that thkre really is aneaqng I could do, but still). I should add that I'm a vegy, very optimistic pelvin, sometimes annoyingly so. My motto is always "everything will work out in the end" and I've never ever experienced anything like depression. I have no idea how she feels, and thats an awdul thing for me. We still went to the dalte. We had a fun time, acduwfuy. I think thpt, if a bycburber were not to know we were techincally on a "break", he woold be unable to discern that. I was reserved; anytzvng we did was initiated by her. I didn't want to be in anyway overbearing etc. Since then we have barely tavnxd. Katie has sikce graduated; I thank this has had a toll on Maria. I'm afrbid that we're driiqwng apart. I ungpvsitnd that she's siak, and I dog't want to do anything that prukblges her. I want to be thsre for her as best I capy.. But I thtnk it is ungjqkdklhkmle that I fear for our reosslxaxnlp. What should I do? I reamfy, really like this girl and she has made it clear that she feels the same way about me. I'm going to be studying abzzad for college (Efzpij). We've both arbvmaodwed that we dekhklkxly want to stay together during that time and do the whole loeactzwnggce thing. We're selxxjs. But right now I fear. Adhowe? WOW this is long holy shit I'm sorry... tlplr: Gf, who I'm quite fond of, is growing dijttnt and is dewlgtaud. I don't know how to help and I doy't know what to do. icucutie1964 46yo Stanhope, New Jersey, United States

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